Being single definitely has its positive and negative points. As a single you are free to do almost anything that you want to do without having to consider another person, or possibly get the permission to do go out or do some new things. Yet, on the negative side, you don’t have one special person that you can share your life with. Of course you’ve got friends and family; however, it is really different when there is a sole partner who will be there to love and take care of you.
As a single Christian you may be consistently on your knees asking God to lead you to the life partner that he has prepared for you. Perhaps you have been disappointed in so many ways already, and would like nothing better than to already meet the man or woman of your dreams. Sometimes we can get easily impatient and we tend to start questioning God if there is really a person out there for you.
For all the Christian single women, no matter what, it is important that we choose to trust God in all ordeals of our life. So if you decide to take some risks by trying new things in regards to dating, just be sure that you will always allow your heart and mind to be open to God through prayer and through His word so that you may be wise as you explore different possibilities.
Right now, there are countless of Christian single women out there who are finding love online. There is now online Christian dating service. I have witnessed several friends who have found their lifetime partner and till now is still very happy. One of the basic helpful tools they used in order to get to know their current mate was through the online chat. By chatting they were easily able to discover the likes and dislikes of a person and go to communicate with them in much faster and easier way than usual.
So if I were to give some advice for the Christian Single Women it would be this:
First, just simply be yourself. No one wants to be dating someone who is not true to themselves. We live in a world of imitators. However, as Christians we believe that God has specifically designed us in a unique and special way. Our life is a gift and our gifts and talents were meant to be shared to bring praise and glory to God. So, that is why I am sure that those who are part of the Christian sing chat, would definitely like to have people who are true to themselves.
Second, be creative and fun throughout your conversation. If you are not naturally this way, then don’t think that it is the end of it. What is most important is that you are able to converse in ways that are not just monotonous and boring. Surprise your chat partner with a question that he or she may not expect.
Finally, be confident. It is hard to talk with someone who is always putting themselves down or doesn’t think much about themselves. Remember that you are God’s special creation and that is why are wonderfully made!